By Anna Doll
Conferences are the lifeblood of writing organizations like Romance Writers of America (RWA) and its local chapters. Publishers and editors, agents, published and wanna-be-published writers join together for a few days of exhilarating workshops, motivating keynotes, parties, celebration, and merriment surrounding our favorite pastime (after sitting at the keyboard for hours at a time, of course)—eating and drinking.
Georgia Romance Writers (GRW) are no exception. Our fall Moonlight and Magnolias Conference is considered one of the best in RWA circles. This year we’ll have Michael Hauge, a best-seller and story and script consultant in Hollywood, presenting a full-day workshop on “Master Your Story—Master Your Destiny”, NYT bestseller Allison Brennan will be the keynote speaker, and Psychologist and Author Kelly L. Stone will present her half-day workshop on Sunday morning, “The Secret to Freeing Your Creative Mind.” Oh, and we’ll also have 3 editors and 3 agents taking pitches. If you’ve been thinking of attending a writer’s conference, M&M 2010 is the place to be!
It is a big deal to be nominated for a Maggie (the chapter’s equivalent of the Rita, Oscar and Grammy…all rolled into one!), and members will bow down before you if you are fortunate enough to win the Maggie. Seriously. Two of our very own PFHT blog sisters, Debbie Kaufman and Sally Kilpatrick were named finalists in this year’s Maggie competition. Even more important is the opportunity to meet others on the road to publication and to rub elbows with those who have been successful in their quest to be published. The weekend is so inspiring you’ll find yourself racing home on Sunday evening to finish that manuscript that’s been languishing on your computer.
My very first writer’s conference was Moonlight and Magnolias. I can remember being awed by the number of published authors, agents and editors milling around, the quality of the workshops—it was where I learned of my tendency to “head hop”—and experienced the nurturing characteristic that romance writers seem to possess. After that first conference, I was hooked and I haven’t missed a conference yet. Last year, I even hit the dance floor after the Maggie presentation!
I’ve had some awesome experiences at conferences. Imagine my first RWA conference, where I found myself helping Nora Roberts set up her table for the RWA Book Signing in Dallas. She is irreverent, but friendly, and is known for her unfailing support of newbie writers. But do not doubt that she’ll give you a friendly kick in the butt if you show any sign of self-pity. “This is a job,” she said that year. “If you want to make it in this business, you need to treat it as such.” You want to know why she’s so successful? She writes every day, even when she’s traveling or attending conferences. She does her own research. And she still finds time to give unpublished writers advice on different blogs she frequents. Nora Roberts is my hero.
So what are your conference highlights? What wonderful advice would you give to someone considering attending their very first conference?
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by Anna Doll
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You’re right, Anna. M&M is definitely the place to be. I’m so excited about Michael Hauge, Allison Brennan and Kelly L. Stone. Their workshops are going to be terrific. Can’t wait!
I have to say, the Maggie’s Awards banquet with dancing afterward is something I look forward to every year.
Hi Anna,
Great post! I love M&M and have really enjoyed the two I’ve attended and got some wonderful tips! You are right. I come home panting to get to the keyboard. This year was my first national conference and I can only look forward to more. It was amazing.
Thanks, Anna! M&M was my first conference as well, and I was bowled over by the number of published authors and by being able to pitch to an actual editor.
This year was my first RWA National Conference, and it was incredible–defies description for those who haven’t been.
This year is going to be a little different than previous years, but come one and all because there will be awesome speakers, fabulous editors and agents, and, of course, the Maggies Award Ceremony.
M & M was also my first conference ever! While I loved my first Nationals this year, it can’t replace a great, smaller conference like M & M!
Okay, I have to jump on the bandwagon. M&M was my first ever conference. This year was my first Nationals. Nationals was fantastic in it’s own way, but you don’t seem to get lost in the crowd at M&M. Instead of 5,000 people, there’s only 200, but those who attend are excited, committed and eager to learn and extend a hand of help to the unpublished or even the published who ask for it.
Moonlight and Magnolias: It’s the place to learn, the place to connect with others, it’s the place to be.
I agree with Sandy. I’ve been to about four national conferences and they were great but overwhelming. Don’t get me wrong, they were worthwhile but M&M is better. It can also be a bit exhausting because there’s so much going on but it’s a good kind of exhaustion. It’s hard to choose between such great workshops but it’s in a smaller setting and you have the chance to meet more editors and agents. I’ve always found that I got more requests from M&M. It’s energizing and informative.
My best experience was when I finaled in the Maggies a few years ago. You do feel like you are Queen for a Day. And when someone you know wins, it’s wonderful.
Besides the wonderful workshops, one of my best national experience was dancing with Nora Roberts. I mean she didn’t know who I was and everyone was dancing out on the floor but it is neat meeting your favorite authors in person.
Congratulations to our blog Maggie finalists. Our ex-blogger Nicki Salcedo also finaled (she won last year) and she is still near and dear to our hearts (and my critique partner).
Marilyn
I agree with everything said. M&M was my very first conference. I haven’t been able to afford nationals yet (crossing fingers for next year), but every person I met at M&M said this conference was on their top pick list of conferences. I know there are attendees from all over the country.
Way to go Sally and Debbie! You ladies rock! Oh and we can’t leave off our very own Nicki Salcedo. Nicki took a break from the blog this year with all she’s got going on outside of PF&HTs.
I can’t wait to get the chance to cheer you all on!
Major, major congrats to all of those who entered the Maggies this year. It takes a lot of guts to even send your work out there.
Thanks for all the great info, Anna!
Tami
M&M is definitely worth the money. I’m coming all the way from Maryland this year. Can’t wait to see you ladies again!
My first conference was National but I do love M and M. It is not only a great place to meet new people but great to catch up and support friends. Way to go Debbie,Sally and Nicki.
My first conference was M&M and I’m glad I did that prior to attending a national conference. M&M started many years ago and has launched plenty of writers into publishing. There’s always a great mix of information/workshops, opportunity to pitch and networking is natural in such a low-stress environment. It’s far less intimidating than wandering through a couple thousand people you won’t know the first time in. I strongly suggest volunteering as a way to become familiar with other writers and the whole conference process.
Thanks to everyone for stopping by! I’m back to school now so I can’t get on until I leave the building!
I do think that you get a better idea of what Moonlight and Magnolias is all about when you do attend a National convention. I mean, it is so overwhelming! M&M is a much more intimate venue. And this year’s will be great because we’re going to focus on just two workshops, but still have the wonderful extras like the pitch workshop, keynote luncheon, editors and agents taking pitches, and our Saturday book fair and signing!
I’m so excited!
Anna
Linsey,
I never looked forward to the dancing! But last year I went in costume, so I felt I could let my inner diva dance! I had a great time and lost about 5 pounds of water weight!
There were several of you who went to National for the first time. Any interesting stories to tell? C’mon, you know you’re dying to tell about the requests!
Tami,
Maybe you and I can start saving our pennies and go to National’s next year. Of course, it’s in New York, my favorite city (after Rome…but I doubt I could afford an RWA event in Italy!)
It is an amazing experience, but very overwhelming. I felt like I was on a roller-coaster the three conferences I attended.
Marilyn,
You always have the best stories! I can just see you dancing, moving around to rub elbows with Nora Roberts! I almost passed out when I stopped by her booth and asked if she needed help. I would have shined her shoes if she’d have asked!
Anna
Dianna,
I agree with the suggestion to volunteer. I volunteered to help my very first M&M and RWA Conference. I’ve made some very good friends and have met countless authors who were so willing to lend a helping hand…like you do!
Giving back to the organization that moves you to that next level in your career is a wise thing to do.
I want to congratulate all the GRW members who finaled in the Maggies…Sally, Debbie and Nicki, of course. Susan Sands and Tracy Kelly Solheim, Jennifer Mcquiston, and Kasey Dillard all finaled in the unpublished category. Trish Milburn, Michelle Sinclair and Karen White all finaled in the published catetory. I can’t wait to attend the awards ceremony. It’s so much fun! And no matter who wins, the awards ceremony will be fun!
M&M is where it’s at! That’s for darn sure. I love the conference, always have.
And I’m sure this year will be no exception. I can’t wait to hear Michael Hauge! That workshop promises to be one to remember.
Last year I loved the “dress up” party. I forget what it was called, but I had a ball wearing my vampire huntress costume and got a kick out of dancing with all the ladies who came dressed as everything from an elizabethan princess to…what were you again? I remember the great wig you wore, and that black bathingsuit tucked into shorts. You looked fabulous!!!
Hope they decide to do something along those lines again.
Great reminder of the conference to come Anna!
I need to sign up right away.
Have a great evening,
Tamara
Tamara,
I immediately signed up last night! No reason to put it off, just hadn’t had time to sit butt in chair and do it! I’m really looking forward to it. Especially since my goal is to write, write, write once I finish this darned master’s degree! Thanks for stopping by!
RWA Conference in Italy? Sign me up.
I’m definitely going to the New York conference, my daughter lives there, although there won’t be much time for anything but the conference.
I took a break from the national conference this year but as Arnold says, “I’ll be back.”
Marilyn
Marilyn,
I’d love RWA Conference in Italy. Love, love, love Italy!
You’re so lucky to have family in NYC. I love visiting New York, but now I don’t know anyone!
See you soon!
Anna