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Debbie Kaufman and Chicken Soup for the Soul: Devotional Stories for Mothers

 

This weekend I attended the Georgia Romance Writers’ Moonlight and Magnolias Conference where I sat in great workshops by Allison Brennan, Michael Hauge, and Kelly L. Stone.  If that wasn’t enough excitement, on Saturday night, Kathryn Lye of Harlequin awarded me a first place Maggie Medallion in Series Contemporary and I received a 3rd place award in the Inspirational Category judged by David Long of Bethany House.  Needless to say, it’s been a really great several days that have left me a little dazed.

Today is just as big a day for me.  It’s the release day for Chicken Soup for the Soul: Devotional Stories for Mothers: 101 Daily Devotions to Comfort, Encourage, and Inspire Mothers, and I am blessed to have two devotional stories included in this wonderful book!  This is the second devotional volume edited by Susan M. Heim and Karen C. Talcott, this one also featuring Lisa Whelchel, former child star on The Facts of Life

Since release day coincides with Petit Fours’ October Treasure Hunt, I thought instead of a short story I’d use a devotional of mine that was Chicken Soup published in their first devotional book, Chicken Soup for the Soul: Devotional Stories for Women: 101 Daily Devotions to Comfort, Encourage, and Inspire Women.

You can buy this new devotional volume here:

Or, you can follow the instructions at the bottom of the blog and leave a comment to be entered to win a signed copy!

 

LIKE A CHILD

And he said: I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. (Matthew 18:3)

The start of a new school year always brings a return to routine at my house.  It’s the same routine practiced all across the country: Roust the children out of bed, make sure everyone has eaten, check to see that the five-year-old has her shoes on, see that hair and teeth are brushed, distribute lunches or lunch money, grab the book bags, and race for the door.  Little thought is required for routine.  As a mom, I just get in the zone and get it all done.  The mental clock is usually ticking the whole time.

     One recent morning proved an exception.  “The trees are dancing!” exclaimed the five-year-old as we pulled out of the driveway.  Her conversation about dancing trees and their choreography went on for about two minutes before I finally came out of my “accomplish the routine” mindset and noticed the amount of wind that day.  Oh!  The trees were dancing.  I was so busy with my routine that I failed to notice the world around me.  Once I started paying attention to the movement of the leaves and the beauty of the trees “dancing,” it changed my whole mindset.

Experiencing life through the eyes of a five-year-old brought beauty and appreciation back to my morning.  I find it is easy to lose the sense of wonder for God’s creation that I had as a child.  The same is true of my relationship with God.  The longer I’ve been in “the routine,” the more likely I am to lose some of the wonder, the awe, and the freshness.  It took a young child to remind me that I need to stop and enjoy the wonder of my relationship with God and His creation.

PRAYER: Dear Father, renew that sense of wonder and child-like faith that I had when our relationship first began.  Remind me to stop and watch the trees dancing or the beauty of a sunset in your creation.  But, especially help me to keep the sense of wonder in my relationship with you, my Creator.

Well, readers, is there a time that you regained that sense of wonder and child-like faith in your life?  Or perhaps had one of those special moments that your child opened your eyes to things you were too busy to pay attention to anymore?  Leave me a comment with your story and I’ll pick one winner after midnight to receive a copy of  this newest devotional book. 

 

Tamara destefano - October 5, 2010 - 7:16 am

First off Debbie, I want to give you a huge, huge congrats!! You are one of the sweetest people I know, you’re talented and helpful and brimming with good cheer. I’m so glad you’re work is doing so well!
Now, in answer to your question, I think I’ll mention my daughter. She’s a pain in the rear most of the time. She’s spoiled rotten, too smart for her own good, and high maintenance, but there are times during the day, even within her bouts of brattiness, that she is the sweetest, most loving, most wonderful teenager I’ve ever met.
I’m first to say I’ve spoiled my own child, but I suppose I did so because I just love her so much. I know that that love is also responsible for those bouts of sweetness too.
I can’t think of a single moment Blake made me feel child-like wonder…I suppose it’s because there are just too many times to count.
I love that bratty, precocious, snarky little girl. And I wouldn’t have her any other way.
Thank you so much for the lovely post Debbie!
And I wish you all the very best in the future.
Have a Greta day!!
Tamara

Pam Asberry - October 5, 2010 - 7:22 am

I want to echo Tamara’s congratulations! What an exciting day for you! My children definitely renewed my sense of wonder when they were small, where nature was concerned. For example, my oldest was into critters of all types; he could identify insects, lizards, fish, etc. by their Latin names and differentiate the males from the females. It was fascinating! Of course, now that they are mostly grown, they have become jaded and cynical and *I* am the one with the childlike wonder! Again, congratulations!!
Pam

Sandra Elzie - October 5, 2010 - 7:23 am

Hi Debbie,
Great post. Nice way to start my day of driving for the next 4-5 hours (after breakfast and COFFEE!!!)

Again, congrats on the Maggie, and a HUGE congrats on the release of your stories in the Chicken Soup for the Soul book. Fantastic!

Be home soon…and I can’t wait. (g)

Sandy

Marilyn Baron - October 5, 2010 - 7:45 am

Debbie,

Congratulations on the Maggie Award and the release of your stories. I’m sorry I was unable to attend the conference to see you win in person due to a death in the family. Your story brightened my day, which really needed a little brightening. So thank you.

Marilyn

Sia Huff - October 5, 2010 - 8:49 am

Great post, Debbie. I was thrilled to see you win the Maggie. And how wonderful that you finaled for two.

In my house we call that sense of wonder, “Magic Moments” – when we connect with both the world around us and each other. There’s nothing better.

My Magic Moment is twofold. When my oldest was a little guy we used to grab a sleeping bag, snacks, a book on the stars and a flashlight to read it. We’d lay in our backyard talking and looking for constellations. I still remember hearing the wonder in his voice when he first saw the Big Dipper, then the Little Dipper.

Now, many moons later that memory has resurfaced. As you know he went off to bootcamp this summer. I did a lot of looking back, hoping and praying I gave him the tools he needed. The only communication we were allowed was good old-fashioned snail mail. My oldest wrote me he’d been thinking a lot also. He remembered going outside and laying on the sleeping bag to gaze up at the stars. I wrote back I was remembering the same thing. In his next letter he asked if we could do it again when he came home. It’s one of the best invitations I’ve received in a while.

Sia

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 9:14 am

Tamara: Thanks for all the good wishes. I’m loving it that you can’t think of a single moment because there were too many to count!

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 9:16 am

Pam: You have just described that cycle that we are all subject to where childhood wonder fades to adult responsibilities and then on to recapturing it– if we’re lucky!

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 9:17 am

Drive safely, Sandy and Dick. Can’t wait to hear all about the triathalon and your trip. You were definitely missed at M & M!

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 9:18 am

Marilyn: You were sorely missed at the conference and I’m so sorry about your loss. I know how hard it is and am praying for you and your family.

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 9:21 am

Oh, Sia: What a WONDERFUL story/invitation. Girl, we are getting you in one of these Chicken Soup volumes with that special moment. I could see when we talked how close you were to him, but that shared memory is really cool!

Sally Kilpatrick - October 5, 2010 - 9:41 am

Debbie,

Congratulations again on your Maggie and all of your requests!!

Thanks, too, for sharing the dancing trees. I’m sure there are many tales of wonder and magic moments going on around here, but right now there’s just a lot of humor. Ever since her vaccinations, Lorelai has been telling everyone to get their shots so they don’t get Napolean. (polio)

Elaine - October 5, 2010 - 10:32 am

Great post and CONGRATS to you on the Maggie! That was amazing to see you go up to the podium – congrats on your book release too.

I enjoyed the PFHT outing on Thurs nite before the conference – was great chatting with you!

Elaine

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 10:48 am

Sally, I love your stories from “Her Majesty.” Enjoy the humor, there’s time for poignant, tearful, and the rest of the emotional gamut later!

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 10:49 am

Elaine: I know our distance keeps us from it, but PFHT has got to do that more often. I loved the time I spent with you and everybody who got to go to dinner.

Miranda Neville - October 5, 2010 - 11:12 am

Congratulations, Debbie, on all this terrific news. The book sounds wonderful.

Kitty Grubbs - October 5, 2010 - 11:52 am

Hey Debbie! I am so proud of you for following your dreams! I am also very proud of your recent awards and accomplishments! Congrats! And last…but not least..thank you for sharing your precious grandchildren with me each week…they are both so unique and fun to get to know!

Dianna Love - October 5, 2010 - 11:55 am

Lots of congrats to you, Debbie. I read both stories in the Chicken Soup book and loved them. The one here epitomizes your engaging writing. Another huge kudos on winning the Maggie and getting so many requests.!!! Sorry I can’t share a story right now – am in NY for CC and have to dash.

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 12:00 pm

Miranda: Thanks for stopping by. Everybody take note of the fact that Miranda is our special guest for tomorrow!

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 12:01 pm

Dianna: Just thrilled that you could find time to stop by at all. I know that ComicCon is keeping you running!

Lynn C. - October 5, 2010 - 12:37 pm

Such an eye opener for sure Debbie!! Loved the reality of it. We do fail to stop and smell the roses sometimes!! Well Written!

Story in my life? Simplicity, Children, or little people just enjoy life, lil things, that brings me back to be reminded to, “Cool it” and don’t be so serious. I was not raised where you enjoyed, a “Carefree” life, so, I am learning it through my Grandchildren!! Oh, you bet, I am soaking it in each time I am with them!! Loved the blog and your talent!! Congrats again Debbie!!

Susan May - October 5, 2010 - 1:24 pm

Debbie,
What a wonderful reminder of how we need to stop long enough to see what is happening around us. Congrats on the win, the place and the book. You’re having an amazing week. Proud of you!

Charlotte Roberts - October 5, 2010 - 1:47 pm

Debbie,
I was delighted to hear about your awards. I enjoyed reading about the dancing trees.

There is nothing like seeing the world through the eyes of a child. Their view is simple, unclouded, and straight to the point.

One morning while visiting at my home, my granddaughter called from the bathroom and said: “Grammy come here.” My reply was, “I’ll be there is just a minute.” When I got to the bathroom my granddaughter said, “Grammy the rainbow is gone.”

You see, shortly after completing our home I realized the most exciting thing. Rainbows would appear in several room of my home as the sun would shine through the windows with cut glass in them or reflect through my light fixtures also causing them to appear. I had shown them to my granddaughter and shared with her how they reminded us of God’s special promise to us.

Following the words, Grammy the rainbow is gone, I reminded her that even though we couldn’t see the rainbow God’s promise was still there. I also told her that next time I would come quickly.

Kelly L Stone - October 5, 2010 - 2:15 pm

Hi Debbie, congratulations on your Maggie win and placement. I am really happy for you and enjoyed seeing you this past weekend.

Your post reminds me of a time when I was at a store and there was a wishing pond where people threw in pennies and made a wish. I don’t think I was in a particularly good mood for some reason and was grousing about various and sundry things, when I overheard a little boy throwing in a penny to the pond. He said “I wish to have a happy day.” I was struck by the simplicity of the request and it snapped me out of my bad mood very quickly.

Thanks for a great post.

Kelly

Betsey - October 5, 2010 - 4:02 pm

Debbie: How wonderful that all of your hard work up to his point has paid off in so many awesome ways!I am SO happy for you-enjoy!!!

Barbara Vey - October 5, 2010 - 4:49 pm

Congrats on your Maggie win and new book! Well deserved.

Tami Brothers - October 5, 2010 - 5:19 pm

Love, love, love this Debbie! Major congrats. I heard about the win but didn’t know about the other. Congrats on that, too. Even finaling is an awesome thing.

LOVE your story. I have the first book and am really excited to get the second. I gave a copy of the first one to my MIL and will give one to my mother. I think I’ll grab a copy of this one and add that to the box I’m sending her.

Again, this is fantastic!!!! Well deserved.

Tami

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 6:50 pm

Hey Kitty: Thanks for stopping by. I so enjoy the fruits of those grandkids’ lessons!

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 6:53 pm

Thanks, Lynn! I know you’re enjoying those grandbabies.

Charlotte: How special to have rainbows in your house and a grandchild to help you remember to enjoy them!

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 6:54 pm

Thanks, Susan. Couldn’t have done it without a little lake view help!

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 6:56 pm

Hey Kelly: What a sweet story. So easy to want the big things and forget the everyday joys. Enjoyed the workshop on Sunday!

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 6:57 pm

Hey Betsey: Thanks and I think I’ll have more for you to read soon!

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 6:58 pm

Barbara: Thanks so much for stopping by today. I know how many demands there are on your time, so I’m honored Smile

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 6:59 pm

Hey Tami: No higher compliment to hear than you bought the books! Thanks, sweetie!

Nicki Salcedo - October 5, 2010 - 8:04 pm

Congrats on the Maggie and books. “Is there a time that you regained that sense of wonder and child-like faith in your life?” Never lost it. God’s still waiting for me to grow up. I love Kelly’s “I wish to have a happy day.” I’m going to do that tomorrow.

Sia Huff - October 5, 2010 - 9:28 pm

Glad you liked my story. Thanks for letting me share my memories. What a wonderful surprise to receive your Chicken Soup stories in return. Looking forward to reading them.

Sia

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 9:46 pm

And that’s just one of the things that makes you so special, Nicki!

Linsey Lanier - October 5, 2010 - 9:47 pm

I’m chiming in very late, but I want to add my heartfelt congratulations on everything. I’m so proud of my blog sister. And your devotional was very touching.

Debbie Kaufman - October 5, 2010 - 9:59 pm

BTW, folks. Chicken Soup is now taking stories for their next devotional, check their website for details!

Will post winner in comments tomorrow and later on sidebar.

Caroline Z. - October 5, 2010 - 10:09 pm

Mom, This is a late comment, but I wanted to make time to say again how incredibly proud I am of you. You are the most amazing example to me, how you love and take care of your family and how you pour so much into your writing! You have always been a true success at all you do, but seeing you through my adult eyes has made me appreciate it all the more.
It has been so busy lately (no comlaints) that I get so caught up in proofs that are due and answering emails and can forget that I am missing out on what is going on around me. My moment was honestly having the new Chicken Soup book come out and be reminded of that moment you had with K.

Love you!

Debbie Kaufman - October 6, 2010 - 1:42 pm

WE HAVE A WINNER:

Miranda Neville is the winner from today’s post.

HOWEVER, after reading my Caroline’s comment to me from yesterday, I’d have to say that I am the real winner to have such a sweetheart of a daughter. Thanks, BabyGirl!

Darcy Crowder - October 6, 2010 - 6:44 pm

Oh, Debbie, you made me cry. LOL. You are blessed to have such a sweet daughter! Congratulations again on winning that Maggie and on all your writing success. It’s so special to be able to see and share in our friend’s joys. I wish you all the best of luck with those requests. Even better things are on the horizon. Smile

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