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Creating Your Writing Garden

I’m thrilled to be the newest member of PFHT.  It’s wonderful being associated with such talented writers. Hope you all enjoy my first blog.

As we near the end of the summer season, it’s also the end of our annual vegetable garden. I think back to spring, a time of rebirth, growth and promise. A time for planting.

Truth be told, I have a love-hate relationship with gardening. Sometimes it’s the same with my writing. I want those tasty, organic veggies, the same as I want a completed, page turning, keeper of a manuscript. But the process…

First you must prepare the soil. That’s the brainstorming. While in gardening it’s the most difficult part for me, in writing it’s the most fun. My family and I moved to Georgia six years ago. They don’t have soil in the south. They have clay. And the rocks… after six years of tilling the same patch of ground, you’d think I wouldn’t find any more rocks. But somehow new ones appear every year.

The first year of “growing”, we produced two uneditable tomatoes. So putting on my Martha Stewart hat, I stopped my project to do some much needed research. It’s considered research in the writing world as well. I read that raised beds were the in thing. Dear hubby went with me to Home Depot to buy the needed supplies, some garden pavers for the hill and two by eights for the raised part. We tilled and threw out a five gallon bucket of rocks. We added a bag of Miracle Grow and cow manure. The miracle grow represents your loving, nurturing critique partners who encourage your new brilliant idea. The manure, well… those are the doubters, you know them… the ones who poo-poo your newly formed, fragile brainchild. The ones who tell you X, Y or Z won’t work. Dear hubby complained the first time we brought manure in a bag. Where we came from, you just went down the road and asked the farmer and it was free. Finally, we had the right mix of red clay streaked with brown, I hoped.

With determination, I decide to forge ahead, despite the doubters. I got excited as I physically planted the seeds into my freshly prepared ground. This is when we actually start the writing process, words to paper or typing on the keyboard. For seven to ten days, I watch that patch of earth for the sprouts to break through. The first five pages, leading into a whole chapter. There’s nothing more satisfying than witnessing your hard work come to fruition. If no rain falls, I water the seedlings with care. Meaning I go back and make sure I have all the elements needed.

Then the weeds come into to play. My own doubts. Ruthlessly, I pull the buggers up, trying to rip out the entire root. Still new weeds pop up. These doubts steal time, energy, nutrients and water from my babies. They must be eliminated.

Next the blooms come, a pretty little flower to show you, yeah, you’re headed in the right direction. Finally a miniature version of the veggie forms, inspiring you to keep at it. This is where your character develops and your plot takes shape. You’re actually getting somewhere. Continuing to water, weed and sometimes feed, I watch as my characters tell their story. If disease creeps in, I prune. Editing can be painful but necessary.

Another year, another bag of Miracle Grow and manure. Tilling and sorting out the new rocks. About the third year, I think we actually produced an editable tomato or two and a few green beans came off the vine. But the cucumbers were balls of a green hue so light they were almost white. By year five, we had the routine down, and a pretty nice return on our labor and worry. We could share the bounty with our neighbors and friends. Here’s the courageous part, sending your baby out. You pick the most beautiful work, the one you’ve slaved and sweated over, the one that makes you proud… and you place it in someone else’s hands. The editor or agent. You’re nervous but hopeful. You’ve done all the work…maybe won a contest or two. But don’t get cocky.

One evening in July, I went to check the veggies progress. Are they ready to be picked yet? In what I perceive to be a true Southern tradition, I decided to collect our bounty in a flowing sundress and barefoot. I bend to check each Straight 8 cuke, glad that they are actually straight and not balls. When wham… a burning sensation slams me… in the bum. The sting of rejection, the confusion and wondering why? Remember the pavers I told you we used on the hill. Yellow jackets decided to build their nest underground in my garden and used the half-inch opening between pavers as their front door. I looked down and there were thirty to forty bees swirling around my ankles. In a very unladylike fashion I hopped out of the garden and sprinted for the back door, praying the yellow jackets didn’t follow. God heard my prayers.

The moral is, good things don’t come easy. Both writing and gardening are work, but oh, so worth it. You’ve got to take the crapola with the praise. The rejection with the kudos. Keep shoveling the Miracle Grow and manure in the mix. You may not like it but they will help your garden and your writing grow.

Sandra Elzie - October 8, 2010 - 4:44 am

Oh Sia, I love the visual of you “hopping” out of the garden and running for home. I’m sorry for your pain, but you gave me a good chuckle.

You couldn’t have painted a more accurate picture. We have to be willing to continue to till the soil and add the manure (training classes, etc) in order to reap a harvest for ourselves and to share with others.

Great first blog article and welcome aboard! It’s great to have you with us.

Sandy

Noelle Pierce - October 8, 2010 - 7:42 am

Hi Sia and glad you’re here! I have the same love-hate relationship with my gardening. And a full-blown hate of GA clay. I dig holes in the clay and fill the holes with Miracle Grow soil to avoid dealing with the whole “soil preparation.” And yellow jacket scare the bejeezus outta me.

Excellent comparison to writing. I’m in the sharing stage right now, and it’s nerve wracking waiting to see what they think.

Good luck with PFHT!

Sia Huff - October 8, 2010 - 8:21 am

Gotta tell you Sandy, it wasn’t so funny at the time. LOL Later when I was telling my family, they thought it was funny too and I couldn’t help but laugh.

Thanks for welcome. Glad you enjoyed the post.

Sia

Sia Huff - October 8, 2010 - 8:28 am

Hi Noelle,

Nice to meet you via cyberspace. Yes, the southern clay is brutal and preparing the soil is a lesson in patience among other things.

We need some of those lessons to get where you are at the sharing part. I wish you the best with your editor or agent. I know it’s nerve racking – just hang in there.

Thanks for commenting.

Sia

Marilyn Baron - October 8, 2010 - 8:57 am

Sia,

Great first post and welcome to the Petit Fours. I loved your gardening analogy. The only things I’ve been able to grow here are roses. I planted five white rose bushes and only one took. But it was the rose bush on steroids. It wound its way up a tree and now I have a white rose tree. I actually had a nice hydrangea bush but one year it didn’t come back. Don’t know where it went.

In Florida, growing up I had a little vegetable garden even though I hate vegetables, but it was really cool to see them grow. The radishes looked great even though I don’t eat them and don’t know what to do with them.

I wish we could just sprinkle some Miracle Grow and our new novel would sprout.

Marilyn Baron

Susan - October 8, 2010 - 10:24 am

Sia,
Glad to have you here. Great post. I laughed also. Things are always funnier after the painful fact. My next house is going to have a good plot of land with few trees around it so I can have a good garden.

Sia Huff - October 8, 2010 - 11:21 am

Thanks for the warm welcome, Marilyn.

Your white rose bush/tree sounds beautiful. Gardening takes time and sometimes we need to put our energy into other things, such as writing.

I do think we sprinkle some Miracle Grow on everytime we take a class, attend a workshop or conference. But, I do agree I wish the “Miracle” part would come more easily.

Thanks for commenting. Sia

Sia Huff - October 8, 2010 - 11:22 am

Glad to be here, Susan. I wish you good planting at your next house and always with your writing career.

Sia

Mary Buckham - October 8, 2010 - 11:55 am

Sia ~~ Congrats on joining a very talented group of writers and on your first blog here – both milestones! Kudos too on the gardening anthology — here in the PNW we’re putting our gardens to bed – a big no no to do with our writing Smile Cheers ~~ Mary B Smile

Linsey Lanier - October 8, 2010 - 12:06 pm

Terrific first post, Sia. Very thought provoking. You are so right about the process and the work of slugging through it. I love your analogies. Wonderful writing.

Although, while rejection can really, really hurt, I think I’d prefer a rejection letter to being attacked by Yellow Jackets any day! I’ll have to remember that comparison next time I get a rejection. Everything in perspective, LOL.

leslie - October 8, 2010 - 12:32 pm

Sia, what a great metaphor and lovely post. I especially liked your idea of gardening barefoot in a flowing dress. I get visions like that in my head, too, but in reality it’s usually me wearing sweatpants and a t-shirt with a coffee stain. Wink

~ Leslie

Connie Gillam - October 8, 2010 - 12:50 pm

Sia-

Great analogy. I also have a love/ hate relationship with gardening.
Keep writing and pruning those weeds.

Sia Huff - October 8, 2010 - 5:10 pm

Mary, thanks for joining me on this special day & the congrats as well.

No we can’t let our writing go dormant over the winter. Thanks for gentle reminder to all of us. And thanks for the continued encouragement to grow.

Take Care in the PNW. Sia

Sia Huff - October 8, 2010 - 5:16 pm

Hi Linsey,
Glad you enjoyed my first post. “Everything in perspective” – too true. Rejections hurt, but we do get over them and continue what’s important. And hopefully learn and grow from them; so we can get the call. Fingers crossed.

Thanks for commenting. Sia

Sia Huff - October 8, 2010 - 5:23 pm

Thank you for the compliment, Leslie. You see where gardening in my flowing dress, barefoot got me. I think I’ll stick with your version, a t-shirt and sweats.

Thanks for commenting. Sia

Sia Huff - October 8, 2010 - 5:26 pm

Hi Connie,

Thanks for commenting today. Yes, I’ll keep writing and pruning my doubts. Thanks for encouragement.

Sia

Debbie Kaufman - October 8, 2010 - 5:59 pm

Hey Sia: Great, great analogy. I cringed at the yellow jackets, having had a similar encounter. I can just see you barefoot in the sundress running for the house! And yes, keep pruning the doubts. Seekerville blog had a great article about an author’s doubts yesterday. I highly recommend it. I swear that Bob Mayer must have been reading my mail to have written it, lol. http://seekerville.blogspot.com/2010/10/writers-enemy-feeling-like-fraud-by-bob.html

Sia Huff - October 8, 2010 - 7:33 pm

Hey Debbie,

Oh no, yellow jackets are serious stuff. Hope you escaped unscathed and can see humor in it.

Thanks for the link to Bob Mayer’s blog. I’ll be popping right over to check it out.

And thanks for leaving a comment. Sia

Darcy Crowder - October 8, 2010 - 7:41 pm

Hi Sia!

Great first blog, it’s wonderful to have you as part of the PFHT team. Smile

I love the gardening analogy…though I hope the similarities stop there because I absolutely do not have a green thumb. My husband mimics gasping sounds every time I come home with a new house plant, let alone trying to garden. LOL.

Good luck with your writing and gardening. I can’t wait to read the fruits of your labors.

Sia Huff - October 8, 2010 - 8:06 pm

What a wonderful welcome, thanks Darcy. You can choose any analogy you like. I just happen to relate to my struggle with gardening.

Ahh, our hubby’s know us best. Thank God we can laugh together. I’m pretty limited on house plants myself. They need to be hearty, so I only have two.

Thanks for commenting. Sia

Tami Brothers - October 10, 2010 - 3:01 pm

Hey Girl!!! Welcome to the blog. Sorry this is soooo late, but am out of town.

Love this story. I can’t wait to read more of your blog posts.

Tami

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