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Ten Building Blocks of a Great Day

You know it was a good day if you didn’t hit or bite anyone. ~ Nathaniel Parizek, age 4

That’s certainly a good start! But here are a few more thoughts about the components of a great day.

1. Eat well.

This one is foundational to the rest. Eating three healthy meals a day, with the emphasis on whole grains, wild caught fish, and fresh fruits and vegetables keeps my blood sugar at a consistent level and provides me with both sufficient energy to get through long, busy days and good nutrition to ward off illness and disease.

2. Exercise

I love running except when I’m doing it, the t-shirt says, and that pretty well sums it up for me. But the simple truth is that when I do something physical every day, I feel better. Sometimes when I think I think I am too tired to exercise I do it anyway, and I am usually rewarded with a burst of energy. A couple of days a week, I work out with a Body Bar and a video; the rest of the time, I hit the elliptical machine at the Fitness 19 or go for a run in my neighborhood. I don’t have six-pack abs and I jiggle in places I wish I didn’t, but my BMI, my cholesterol and my blood pressure are all within the normal range and I can actually run a 5K without stopping.

3. Connect with a friend.

Whether it’s writing a letter, making a phone call, sending an message on Facebook, or actually meeting for coffee or lunch, spending time with a cherished pal gives me an emotional lift that lasts for weeks

4.  Do your job and do it well.

I am a piano teacher; as such, I have an important responsibility to the young people with whose music education I am entrusted. My job is not only to instruct, but also to motivate and inspire. No matter what else is going on in my personal life, no matter how scattered and distracted I might feel, I do my best to put that all aside and provide every student who walks into my studio with a joyful and creative musical experience and to coax a smile, however fleeting, from the most reluctant of participants. Sharing my love of music with my students, keeping their sparks ignited, brings me joy like nothing else.

5. Take a step towards your dream.

I aspire to be a traditionally published novelist. Although my daily goal is to add 500 words a day to my manuscript, even a paragraph is progress in the right direction.

6. Bring a sweater.

I am cold by nature. In the winter, I shiver for obvious reasons, but even in the summertime I find that many establishments–restaurants, movie theaters, the grocery store–keep their thermostats set at much lower temperatures than I keep the one at my house. Simple solution? I keep a sweater or a fleece jacket in my car so I can grab it if I need it.

7. Work with your hands.

Doing something creative every day, whether it’s beading a pair of earrings, knitting a few rows of a scarf, or putting together a scrapbook page gives me something concrete to show for my time on a daily basis. It also inspires me in other endeavors, like blogging and fiction writing.

8. Treat yourself to something special.

I have a beautiful crystal dish that I keep stocked with beautifully wrapped dark chocolate candies. I reward myself with two every day: one after I have met my daily word count goal, and one after I exercise. If I have missed one of these for some reason – I rarely miss both – I might treat myself to one more goody at bedtime, as a reward for simply making it through another day.

9. Give thanks.

Last thing before I turn out the light every night, I pull out my gratitude journal and make note of three to five things I am thankful for. It’s easy. Less than five minutes and I am in a satisfied state of mind conducive to sleep.

10. Get sufficient rest.

This is the hardest one for me. My teaching day doesn’t wrap until until eight or nine at night; by the time I make dinner, clean up, and crawl into bed, it’s getting late.  My body feels it, but my brain is still fully charged. I am trying to develop a soothing nighttime routine to ease that transition from wakefulness to sleep and get a solid seven or eight hours of shut-eye every night.

 

Your list is probably different from mine. What does a day well spent look like to you?

 

Marilyn Baron - September 18, 2012 - 6:45 am

Love your list. I’m not feeling No. 1 and 2, but I love spending time with friends and No. 8 is attractive. Treat yourself to something special. And chocolate? Hello! As far as No. 10, I get only six hours of sleep a day, but I agree more sleep would be better. However, now I have a built-in alarm clock. Really enjoyed your post.

Linsey Lanier - September 18, 2012 - 7:08 am

Pam, my life is definitely not as organized as yours. I usually go where necessity takes me. Or whim, if I have the time. One thing I do follow is writing daily when I’m working on a book. But the prep time is just as important.

Eight hours sleep is a must for me, but I often only get seven or seven and a half. And if I had a crystal dish of dark chocolate, I would reward myself for each word I wrote and end up eating the whole bowl. I admire your restraint. Smile

Pam Asberry - September 18, 2012 - 8:53 am

LOL, Marilyn! I agree that No. 8 is a lot more fun than 1 and 2. And I think I read somewhere that our bodies require less sleep as we get older. There has to be SOME perk, right? Wink

Pam Asberry - September 18, 2012 - 8:54 am

I have days like that, Linsey. As a matter of fact, my candy dish is empty right now. So I have switched to rewarding myself with Nonni biscotti. I have just enough left for today…

Denise - September 18, 2012 - 9:33 am

Love your list. Self care is so important. We can’t be their for others if we don’t take care of ourselves.

Pam Asberry - September 18, 2012 - 9:41 am

So true, Denise! Martyrdom is so twentieth century, don’t you think? Wink

Susan Carlisle - September 18, 2012 - 10:03 am

Pam,
What a nice list. It does sound like the way to make a good day. I’m going to put a number of them into practice. As a writer who sits a lot I find that the exerise is so important.

Pam Asberry - September 18, 2012 - 10:33 am

I read somewhere recently, Susan, that taking a break from writing and doing something repetitive, like running on the elliptical machine, actually helps get the creative juices flowing again. I have certainly found that to be the case!

Sunithi - September 18, 2012 - 1:25 pm

Nice ! I really need to do 2 & 10. Like you, am a night owl & can sometimes never find time to fit in exercise. 7 I need ! Esp since the AC is always on ‘extra cool’ at work SmileI think 1 is my strong point! Good post !

Carol Burnside - September 18, 2012 - 10:19 pm

That #10 is a doozy for me too. To go along with #1, 2, & 10, I would add to your list: Maintain good oral hygiene. It affects your health more than you would believe (even your heart!), makes you feel ‘freshened up’ and having fresh breath is always a plus. Yes

Pam Asberry - September 18, 2012 - 11:13 pm

Good point, Carol. I will admit that I don’t floss as regularly as I should. Maybe I will put that one alongside #1. And now I’m going to BED! Smile

Pam Asberry - September 19, 2012 - 9:23 pm

Hi Sunithi! I just visited your blog and it sounds like you are DEFINITELY on track with #1. Thank you so much for stopping by and commenting! Smile

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