

You know it was a good day if you didn’t hit or bite anyone. ~ Nathaniel Parizek, age 4
That’s certainly a good start! But here are a few more thoughts about the components of a great day.
1. Eat well.
This one is foundational to the rest. Eating three healthy meals a day, with the emphasis on whole grains, wild caught fish, and fresh fruits and vegetables keeps my blood sugar at a consistent level and provides me with both sufficient energy to get through long, busy days and good nutrition to ward off illness and disease.
2. Exercise
I love running except when I’m doing it, the t-shirt says, and that pretty well sums it up for me. But the simple truth is that when I do something physical every day, I feel better. Sometimes when I think I think I am too tired to exercise I do it anyway, and I am usually rewarded with a burst of energy. A couple of days a week, I work out with a Body Bar and a video; the rest of the time, I hit the elliptical machine at the Fitness 19 or go for a run in my neighborhood. I don’t have six-pack abs and I jiggle in places I wish I didn’t, but my BMI, my cholesterol and my blood pressure are all within the normal range and I can actually run a 5K without stopping.
3. Connect with a friend.
Whether it’s writing a letter, making a phone call, sending an message on Facebook, or actually meeting for coffee or lunch, spending time with a cherished pal gives me an emotional lift that lasts for weeks
4. Do your job and do it well.
I am a piano teacher; as such, I have an important responsibility to the young people with whose music education I am entrusted. My job is not only to instruct, but also to motivate and inspire. No matter what else is going on in my personal life, no matter how scattered and distracted I might feel, I do my best to put that all aside and provide every student who walks into my studio with a joyful and creative musical experience and to coax a smile, however fleeting, from the most reluctant of participants. Sharing my love of music with my students, keeping their sparks ignited, brings me joy like nothing else.
5. Take a step towards your dream.
I aspire to be a traditionally published novelist. Although my daily goal is to add 500 words a day to my manuscript, even a paragraph is progress in the right direction.
6. Bring a sweater.
I am cold by nature. In the winter, I shiver for obvious reasons, but even in the summertime I find that many establishments–restaurants, movie theaters, the grocery store–keep their thermostats set at much lower temperatures than I keep the one at my house. Simple solution? I keep a sweater or a fleece jacket in my car so I can grab it if I need it.
7. Work with your hands.
Doing something creative every day, whether it’s beading a pair of earrings, knitting a few rows of a scarf, or putting together a scrapbook page gives me something concrete to show for my time on a daily basis. It also inspires me in other endeavors, like blogging and fiction writing.
8. Treat yourself to something special.
I have a beautiful crystal dish that I keep stocked with beautifully wrapped dark chocolate candies. I reward myself with two every day: one after I have met my daily word count goal, and one after I exercise. If I have missed one of these for some reason – I rarely miss both – I might treat myself to one more goody at bedtime, as a reward for simply making it through another day.
9. Give thanks.
Last thing before I turn out the light every night, I pull out my gratitude journal and make note of three to five things I am thankful for. It’s easy. Less than five minutes and I am in a satisfied state of mind conducive to sleep.
10. Get sufficient rest.
This is the hardest one for me. My teaching day doesn’t wrap until until eight or nine at night; by the time I make dinner, clean up, and crawl into bed, it’s getting late. My body feels it, but my brain is still fully charged. I am trying to develop a soothing nighttime routine to ease that transition from wakefulness to sleep and get a solid seven or eight hours of shut-eye every night.
Your list is probably different from mine. What does a day well spent look like to you?
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by Pam Asberry
Love your list. I’m not feeling No. 1 and 2, but I love spending time with friends and No. 8 is attractive. Treat yourself to something special. And chocolate? Hello! As far as No. 10, I get only six hours of sleep a day, but I agree more sleep would be better. However, now I have a built-in alarm clock. Really enjoyed your post.
Pam, my life is definitely not as organized as yours. I usually go where necessity takes me. Or whim, if I have the time. One thing I do follow is writing daily when I’m working on a book. But the prep time is just as important.
Eight hours sleep is a must for me, but I often only get seven or seven and a half. And if I had a crystal dish of dark chocolate, I would reward myself for each word I wrote and end up eating the whole bowl. I admire your restraint.
LOL, Marilyn! I agree that No. 8 is a lot more fun than 1 and 2. And I think I read somewhere that our bodies require less sleep as we get older. There has to be SOME perk, right?
I have days like that, Linsey. As a matter of fact, my candy dish is empty right now. So I have switched to rewarding myself with Nonni biscotti. I have just enough left for today…
Love your list. Self care is so important. We can’t be their for others if we don’t take care of ourselves.
So true, Denise! Martyrdom is so twentieth century, don’t you think?
Pam,
What a nice list. It does sound like the way to make a good day. I’m going to put a number of them into practice. As a writer who sits a lot I find that the exerise is so important.
I read somewhere recently, Susan, that taking a break from writing and doing something repetitive, like running on the elliptical machine, actually helps get the creative juices flowing again. I have certainly found that to be the case!
Nice ! I really need to do 2 & 10. Like you, am a night owl & can sometimes never find time to fit in exercise. 7 I need ! Esp since the AC is always on ‘extra cool’ at work
I think 1 is my strong point! Good post !
That #10 is a doozy for me too. To go along with #1, 2, & 10, I would add to your list: Maintain good oral hygiene. It affects your health more than you would believe (even your heart!), makes you feel ‘freshened up’ and having fresh breath is always a plus.
Good point, Carol. I will admit that I don’t floss as regularly as I should. Maybe I will put that one alongside #1. And now I’m going to BED!
Hi Sunithi! I just visited your blog and it sounds like you are DEFINITELY on track with #1. Thank you so much for stopping by and commenting!